When You want to utilize the mantra, You need to give the person a thing to take in. This item need to be certain [abhimintrit] by this mantra by holding some thing edible and chanting the mantra. ॐ खां ग्‍याम ग्‍याह महुम पति/पत्निं वश्यम् कुरुह कुरु स्वाहा: Om hrim kaali https://tantramantraaurvigyaan.com/